Your love language says a lot about the ways you welcome and acknowledge love and care from others. Applying those same practices to the love you give yourself will help foster a better self-care routine and relationship with yourself.
Everyone has a primary love language. Simply put, a love language describes how a person feels loved and appreciated. Although this expression is usually directed at romantic relationships, knowing your love language can help enhance your most important relationship - the relationship with yourself.
Since self-care is all about taking action to protect one’s well being and happiness, understanding how and when you feel most loved is crucial to establishing a self-care routine and can help transform your self-care practices.
Read on for a description of the 5 love languages and BYOP's Recommend Acts of Self-Care Based On Your Love Language.
1. Words of Affirmation
People with this love language enjoy hearing that they are loved and appreciated and the reasons behind the love.
Recommended Acts Of Self Care
If you enjoy receiving written notes or words of kindness from your loved ones, try adding the below to your self-care routine.
Reciting daily affirmations
Keeping a gratitude jar or list
Maintaining an accomplishment file
Acknowledging and celebrating small wins
Eliminating negative self-talk
Writing a list of things you love about yourself
Saving and rereading kind notes people have written to you
Reading through your favorite self-care/self-love quotes
Listening to inspiring music or a podcast
Writing letters to your younger or future self
2. Acts of Service
This language focuses on showing love and adoration through action, which helps ease the burden of responsibility and ultimately makes your daily routine or lifestyle easier.
Recommended Acts Of Self-Care
If you enjoy being surprised with a clean house or a cooked meal, try adding the below to your self-care routine.
Cleaning and decluttering
Getting a head start on New Year’s resolutions and goals
Unfollowing social media Accounts that no longer serve you or bring you down.
Taking a social media break
Volunteering or doing something nice for someone else
Maintaining your laborious skin-care routine
Meal planning
Unplugging after a long day
Stillness (doing nothing)
Creating a budget or financial plan
3. Receiving Gifts
If this is your love language, you enjoy the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. It’s not just about the item or cost, but showing that you are appreciated.
Recommended Acts Of Self-Care
If you enjoy receiving non-materialistic gifts as a sign of love, try adding the below to your self-care routine.
Treating yourself to fresh flowers
Creating a mood-boosting playlist
Learning a new skill
Starting a new hobby
Starting a new book
Planting or repotting your plants
Indulging in your favorite dessert
Splurging on a massage or a spa day
Making your bed
Treating yourself to a cleaning or laundry service
4. Quality Time
This love language is all about receiving your undivided attention. This means no distractions, no cell phones, no work emails - just taking time every day to do something meaningful for yourself.
Recommended Acts Of Self Care
If you feel most loved when there is time devoted just for you, try adding the below to your self-care routine.
Journaling your thoughts
Dedicated self-care days
Trying out a new recipe or baking
Spending time with loved ones
Putting your phone on do not disturb
Soaking in a bubble bath
Saying no
Solitude
Going on a solo vacation or exploring a new neighborhood or park alone
Snuggling with a new book in bed
5. Physical Touch
People who have this love language thrives on human contact and connection.
Recommended Acts Of Self Care
If a hug or human contact helps you feel comfortable and reassured, try adding the below to your self-care routine.
Using essentials oils
Getting a manicure or pedicure
Drinking warm tea or coffee
Sleeping with a weighted blanket
Natural sunlight
Stretching
Getting a hand, head, back, or full-body massage
Cuddling with the family’s pet
Holding or embracing your child or partner
Calling or video-chatting a loved one
Learning your primary love language and incorporating it into your self-care practices will help create a powerful self-care routine and relationship with yourself.
What is your love language? What acts are your adding to your self-care routine?
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